Tuesday, October 23, 2012

If one pair of Brooks is good . . . . four is better???

If you’ve been reading my blog, you know that the past 24 weeks has been challenging, in a myriad of ways. One of the ways has to do with my footwear for this Walk.  When I was little, Keds were “in” – your choice of color was white, or white, so at the start of school each year, we’d make the yearly trek to the Walt Whitman Mall in Huntington, NY. First stop – Baker’s Shoes.  My mom and I would scan the shoes in the window, give the man the # and size of the one I was interested in and he’d disappear in the back, only to re-appear in a few minutes with two boxes – one in the size I requested, and another in the next half-size up, just in case. That’s when my Dad would spring into action. He’d put the shoe on my foot, have me stand, and then with his thumb, he’d press down on the toe of the shoe to see where my big toe was. It hurt, but no matter. Then,  He’d squeeze the sides of the shoe around my foot to see if it fit width-wise, then have me walk away from him, then back towards him.  This process would continue ‘til we found the right shoe – size wise, heel height-wise, color-wise.  When we left the store, I was smiling with the shoe box under my arm, my mom was smiling ‘cause she could cross another “to-do item” off her list, and my dad was smiling because he had successfully fitted me with another pair of shoes. Big day in our family.  Sneakers were always purchased at either Korvettes or Modell’s. Each of the Silva-kids were outfitted with ONE pair of sneakers: they were usually on sale; they were always white (no other choice at that time), and they were usually Keds because the only other kind was the store-brand which had no staying power (per my mom).  This pair was to last the entire school year – when dirty, they’d get washed; when scuffed, they’d be “painted” with white shoe paint; when the big toe popped through, then and only then were a new pair purchased. 
When I became an adult, I pretty much followed the same routine (although there was that one year when I had two pairs of Reeboks at the same time – one pink, one blue . . .). The best sneakers were the cheapest as far as I was concerned. No matter that the tread was gone on the bottom, the better to dance the twist (have you ever tried to dance like chubby Checker with a well-tractioned pair of sneakers??). Unless that big toe came peeking through, that sneaker was good to go. So, all this to say, it was with much trepidation that I researched my first pair of official, train-for-the-walk, good for your feet, sneakers at Dicks Sporting Goods. I told the salesman (and I use that term lightly-- I have underwear older than this young man) that a good sneaker to me is one that is on sale at Kohl’s for $30 or under.  After explaining my hairline fracture issue on my left arch, he pointed me to the Brooks Adrenaline, a snappy looking pair of light blue sneakers. He explained that because it was last year’s model, I could actually save $30.00 on the current model. SOLD! The next day, I discarded my $30 Kohl’s pair of New Balance, and walked five miles in my Brooks -- really; still reeling from the price, but loving how comfortable my feet felt --- maybe there was something to “you get what you pay for.”  After several weeks, a second pair was purchased – this time, in pink!  In my usual fashion, I waited WAY too long before purchasing a third pair, but given my history with sneaks, i.e. see above, it was difficult to bring myself to split with the bucks required.  At the 21 week mark, on a Wednesday, IT happened….the dreaded plantar’s fasciitis struck my right foot! That first morning, I couldn’t put any weight on the heel, at all!  The next day, with the aid of a cane (a gag gift to my son for his 21st birthday), I hobbled my way into a specialty sneaker store – after measuring my foot a half dozen ways, watching my walk, and asking many questions about my training, and my treatment of my feet when NOT training, they determined that the sneakers that I had been wearing for the past 21 weeks were not good for my feet, and recommended another Brooks style that would help with my faciitis.  I bought it – at that point, I would have bought anything if it brought some relief, and it did, for a week and a half, but now the arch in my left foot was hurting. So, back to another store I went, and after spending over an hour speaking with a “sneaker expert” (who knew?), I left with yet another pair of Brooks, different style, which was supposedly the best of both worlds – more arch support like the first style, softer heel like the second style.  I wore them “indoors” for a few days, and they are not comfortable, at all! 
So, here we are two days before the big weekend, and if you’re keeping count,  I have four pairs of sneakers, three different styles, and my right foot is presently elevated, with ice, and a throbbing pain in the heel.  I have no idea which pair I’ll wear, I don’t have a spare pair, and at this point, I don’t really care.  It’s even crossed my mind to wear two different sneakers, but I’m told that’ll just throw my body out of whack, and lead to hip problems – OY! The only thing I’m sure of is that, Lord willing, I will be walking this weekend – in which sneaker – the blue, pink, aqua, or neon green?  Your guess is as good as mine!

Friday, October 19, 2012

These are the people in my neighborhood...

If you have children, you have probably heard this song, ad nauseum while watching Sesame Street with them. If you are a young person, you probably sang this song with your parents. For some reason, during one day’s walk, this song came into my mind, and wouldn’t let go.  I hummed it going up the hills, I hummed it going down the hills, then graduated to singing it out loud at an upbeat tempo to keep myself moving forward at a quick pace for the last couple of miles. I have seen and met so many nice people the past 23 weeks. You can learn a lot about people just by walking past their homes repeatedly. 
Let me introduce you to some of the people I’ve waved to/spoken to/learned to avoid during my walks –
  • there’s the man who lets his dogs out on the front lawn to do their business, while he stands on the lawn and reads the paper. When they’re done, they wait on the porch, until he finishes and lets them back into the house
  • the woman who used to be a jogger, but now, due to arthritis in her legs, can only walk two blocks, which she does, every morning, in her bathrobe and slippers, and three times, she joined me as I was passing her house
  • the old man who walks his golden retriever three times a day – the dog’s name is Toby, have no clue what the man’s name is
  • Lawn woman is obsessed with moving the sprinkler hither and yon until every inch of her greenery has been doused
  • the Walking Whistler, who is about 80 years old. He walks as if someone is chasing him, the whole time whistling some unknown tune – honestly, it gets on my nerves! 
  • the woman who “dresses” her plastic lawn ducks in costumes based on whatever the season/holiday is – right now, one is dressed like a witch, the other like a pumpkin.
  • the miniature dachshund, who joins its master jogging and runs as if its life depends on it, always a few steps ahead of its owner with its tongue swinging in the breeze.
  • the Charlotte-Mecklenburg policeman who keeps his lawn trimmed with a GIANT John Deere tractor that takes about three passes to complete the mowing.
  •  a very SENIOR citizen that walks like Tim Conway, I kid you not! – for those who don’t know who that is, shame on you! 
  • The couple from NJ that is moving back after 6 years so that they can be closer to their children/grandchildren – the upstairs of their 3500 sq. ft. custom house has never been used!  
  •  The grandma that rides her “little rascal” up a steep driveway to the mailbox – that’s one of the ways she helps around the house. (btw, her cat accompanies her to and from the box.)
  • The young woman walking her Golden-Poo (a cross between a Standard Poodle and Golden Retriever) – every time I’ve seen her, she is talking on her cell – who has that much to talk about?? 
  • The Bible Study Teacher who is new to NC (from Washington D.C.). We spoke for well over an 2 hours one day about our lives, our families, our hopes and dreams, and God’s place in it all.
  • The Vietnamese man who lovingly tends to his beautiful flower garden daily.
  • The young girl who can be found curled up on a chair on her front porch, reading a book as early as 7:00 a.m.
  • The couple whose corner property is pristine, whose home would make Martha Stewart proud, but whose personalities are cold as ice – not once in the numerous times I have passed them sitting on their porch, did they EVER wave, smile, or utter a word. How rude!!
  •  The landscapers in SailView – I’m there when they’re there and we’ve weathered the heat, rain and morning fog together
  • an elderly gentleman who walks his shihtzu at Jetton Park on Thursday mornings; he’s much friendlier than the dog (what’s wrong with that breed that they’re so nasty)
  • The Lincoln County Sheriff that patrols SailView; has a great smile, and started giving me two-thumbs up the third week in! (hard not to recognize the limping woman in pink J)
There’ve been entrepreneurs along the way too  – all under 12 years old
  • the brother and sister selling lemonade
  • two friends selling cherry slushies – they sat at the side of the road for 6 hours, and what a treat it was as the temperature had climbed to well over 90 degrees by the time the walk was over.
  • one young man who sold duct-tape wallets for $1 apiece; he was the first salesman I came across, and taught me that you should always carry cash on you, just in case you need to frequent a local vendorJ

So, now…  you know “the people in my neighborhood, in the neighborhood, they’re in the neighborhood…and these are the people in the neighborhood, the people that you meet each day!”

Saturday, October 6, 2012

21 weeks down, 3 to go!






Hi everyone – wanted to touch base with you and let you know what’s happening, just three weeks shy of the REAL thing. That’s right, three weeks from tonight, two-thirds of THE walk will be over, and only 20 miles will be left to complete.  It’s been a LONG 21 weeks – challenging in ways I never expected, wonderful in ways I couldn’t have imagined…..and you’ve all helped in a myriad of ways.

First off, thanks so much for your donations to the cause. The $2300 seemed insurmountable at the start, but your generosity made it look easy. If you want to know more about how the funds raised are put to the best use, check out the website: www.the3day.org. It explains it better than I ever could.

The encouragement you sent my way, via notes, cards, emails, fb messages, and texts seemed to be perfectly timed with my bouts of doubts  (my dad always said I’d be a poet). Loved the messages that some of you left on my wall – they touched my heart and motivated me to do better, walk faster, and get ‘er done. Pep talks came when needed, especially from you, Steve, who can read me like a book – that’s pretty irritating at times, but very appreciated (even if I don’t seem very appreciative at the time).   Nee, I could always count on you to talk me through the last mile or two of a walk, and Marlene, at times, you seemed to know my walk schedule better than I did.  Steven, you always offered up a “Good Job!” when I’d come home from a walk on Tuesday and Thursday mornings, even if your eyeballs were still closed. pC, thank you for allowing me the flexibility to come in later on Thursdays so I can get my walk in. And, to everyone who has kept me in their prayers, thank you. One of the unforeseen benefits of this training has been the opportunity to work on my spiritual life.

 Last weekend, my walking partner Anne and I travelled to the mts. of Virginia to complete the biggest weekend of training – 34+ miles over two days. We experienced heat, cold, fog, 7 miles of rain, a bad toe nail, bum leg, lumpy beds, a grouchy hotel concierge, and a faulty alarm. We also worked out some kinks with regard to equipment, clothing, had lots of laughs, and enjoyed surprise chocolate-covered strawberries, compliments of my husband. All in all, it was a great weekend!

Physically, I’ve had better times. If you see/talk to me on a daily basis, you know what’s been happening. Someone asked me the other day if I thought all of the recent maladies, I prefer to call them “challenges,” were happening because I’m too old to do this Walk.   I can’t remember who it was that said it, but I couldn’t get cranky with them because they only voiced out loud what has crossed my mind over the past 21 weeks.  21 weeks ago, I wasn’t sure I could make it to 21 weeks, and here I am, with all of you (friends, cousins, nieces, nephews, sister, brothers, husband, sons, boss, friends of sister), in my corner. So, old or not, I’m going to walk, 3 days-60 miles, in less than three, short weeks!

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